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Client Etiquette
Our expectations at Tender Touch Massage with regards to the simple rules of common sense and good behavior.
We will gladly answer any questions you might have about the massage before we actually start the session, so please feel free and ask for any clarifications you may need. Please don’t just make any assumptions.
Respect
Remain within the personal boundaries your masseuse has set. Sensual massage is a very intimate experience. If you make your masseuse feel uncomfortable, it is likely to hinder your experience.
If you are disrespectful, you will be asked to leave immediately and without a refund.
If your masseuse tells you no, more than twice, you will likely find your massage cut short.
We value our ladies very highly. Their safety in performing their services is paramount.
Violence and/or any unacceptable behaviour will not be tolerated and will be reported to Police.
Our aim is to provide you with the very best possible service we can. By following our simple Client Etiquette, your time with us will be so much more enjoyable.
Full Sex
Our Tendertouch ladies do NOT offer sex, oral sex or kissing. Please do not ask, as this does offend us.
Our personal information
Please do not ask for our private information. It is against our rules.
Touching
Gentlemen’s rules, ask before you touch.
Touching on the front, above the bellybutton, breasts, arms, back and buttocks is ok, but, only in a soft and sensual way. No grabbing, squeezing, or holding onto your masseuse.
Massaging your lady: some ladies allow this. When massaging your masseuse please do not body slide or touch between her legs (unless an extra has been arranged).
Sensual massage on women is slightly different.
Extras and Tipping
Some ladies (but not all) do cater for extras such as light/reasonable fetishes and prostate massage.
If she agrees to compliment your experience in this way, please make sure you have the funds available to tip her appropriately.
Touching between the legs: – Starts from $40 for an hour (or less) per booking – the volume of touching and length of your booking can increase this.
Flat hand touching only, no penetration. This is for your pleasure only.
Multishot: $20 within the timeframe of your massage
Longer Lingham massage: $40
Prostate massage during hand relief: $40
Prostate massage extended: $60
Light fetishes: $To be discussed
Voyeurism: $40-$80*
* Watching your partner being massaged is $40 on top of your booking cost
* If you wish to watch and join in, in giving your partner the massage, it is $80 on top of your booking cost
* This Voyeur price is for a couples massage with ONE Tender Touch lady
TIPPING
This is not expected or required (unless the masseuse offers a complimentary service). But if you enjoyed the service and the lady went out of her way to provide a very good service to you, a small tip or gift can go a long way to ensuring that lady remembers you and continues to provide a quality and valuable service next time.
Hygiene
Please use plenty of bodywash and face cloths provided. Wash vigorously, especially for your masseuses’ delicate noses, under your arms and your private areas. We do get up close and personal. You will not experience the best of your sensual massage experience if you have bad hygiene.

“I met Carlos a few days ago. It was my very first experience ever like this. I was very nervous. But Carlos was very kind and and we had a very nice chat before about my wishes, which made me feel super comfortable.”
Sue
“What a lovely treat! I’ve had a few sensual massages before, but this one really stood out and was exactly what I needed. I can’t recommend Carlos highly enough to any woman who wants to be treated by a true gentleman.”
Karen
“Carlos made me feel comfortable from the moment I walked in. This was my first time experiencing a sensual massage with a male masseuse and it can’t get any better than Carlos. The massage was just the right balance of firm pressure, soft strokes and teasing.”
Stacey
“My partner and I booked for a sensual massage with Carlos and the beautiful brunette. Never expérienced this kind of massage together but it was amazing. And I must say Carlos’s hands were perfect, sensual, respectful, thank you for this moment”
Elvina & JC
Bonnie truly knows her craft and how to make a man feel special. Highly recommend. Easily the best sensual massage I have ever had. I live in the North Island but I’ll be back soon for sure.
Brian
That was the most amazing hour I have ever spent. The ladies took me to Heaven and back, they were very professionial in service and their beautiful smiles were to die for.
Richard
The professionalism and expertise of Jane and Bonnie were evident in every touch, blending relaxation with a deeply indulgent experience. Their intuitive understanding of my needs, combined with skilled use of caresses, strokes, and body slides, created a sense of connection that was both soothing and revitalizing.
Jane
The Tender Touch double, an experience that becomes totally addictive after the your first time. The selection of ladies is so good that the doubles options can be a tough choice!
Tickle James
I had the pleasure of experiencing a sensual massage at Tender Touch, and it was truly unforgettable. From the moment I arrived the welcoming environment put me at ease.
John
I’d been meaning to try a massage like this for ages, and it took a bit of courage to finally book it. But honestly, what an amazing experience! Thought an hour might feel long at first, but once Carlos got started, the time just flew by. I don’t think I’ve ever been touched so gently and with such care. He’s also super respectful and just a really lovely guy. Thanks heaps for this beautiful experience! Keen to come back soon!
